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Strap On Dildo: 4 [Must Know] Facts

Myths Dispelled, A 4-Point Guide to Your First Strap On Dildo Purchase

By: Dear Lady Blogger   Last Updated: 05/25/2017

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So you know all about the birds and the bees and might even call yourself kinky, but do you know about the wild and wonderful world of sex with a strap on dildo?

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If your mother never told you about these bedroomsuperstars, we would not fault her for that. Who would?

We at DearLady can provide you with the information you need before you make your first strap-on dildo purchase.

Maybe you`re familiar with strap on dildos thanks to their popular use in girl-on-girl pornos.

Maybe you currently use a dildo during sexy sessions with your partner and wonder what a strap on, usually complete with harness, has to offer the two of you.

Strap on dildos help you reach the next level of intimacy with your lover, encouraging exploration, communication and mental and physical connection that is unrivaled by any other type of sex toy on the market. There is nothing quite like sex with a strap on dildo, and we are sure you`ll soon agree.


Myths

According to Psychology Today, there are 2 primary myths associated with strap on dildo sex. One: That penetrating a man anally means that he is gay, particularly if his female partner uses a strap on dildo to do it.

Being penetrated anally makes a man no more gay than a woman wearing pants. People of all genders and sexual orientations enjoy anal penetration and prostate massage.

There is nothing like the feeling you get when you are filled up by your partner anally. And we`re in the 21st century anyway. We say enough with homophobia and shame tactics. Myth #2: Women who use strap on dildos to have sex with their partners, no matter their sexual orientation, have penis envy.

While some women say using a strap on dildo satisfies their curiosity about what it`s like to have a penis during sex (Cosmopolitan offers 3 different perspectives on dildo use), this perspective does not speak for the masses.

Some women just love to penetrate their partner while having both hands free to caress, hold and maneuver their partner during sex.

Who Are They For Anyway?

Couples of all genders and orientations enjoy strap on dildo sex. Yes, we said it. Contrary to popular belief, strap-on dildos are not just for sex between bisexual, lesbian and/ or queer women.

Heterosexual couples enjoy pegging, prostate play, and double penetration. Hollow strap on dildos offer options in sex for men who experience erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.

Sex with a strap on dildo can be fun for everyone, for men, women and gender-nonconforming alike.

More often than not, sex with strap on dildos offers couples the chance to experiment with and exchange roles and power dynamics and empowers both the wearer and receiver, and who doesn’t want that?


Harness


The whole point in having a strap on dildo is that it allows for sexual pleasure and health, so having the right tools for the job is key.

The first thing you`ll want to consider while browsing strap on dildos is the style of the harness and what the harness is made of.

While the material you choose will come down to personal preference and aesthetic, be it nylon, leather, latex, cloth or plastic, the style you choose will require more thought.

Will you go with a G-string style or the more jockey type? G-string harnesses strap around the waist and between the legs. Jockstrap style harnesses also strap around the waist but then around each leg instead of between them.

There are thigh harnesses, harnesses that strap to the face, and even gags that are inserted into the wearer`s mouth while a dildo protrudes from the other side. Talk about creativity and variety! Any style of harness you choose should be sturdy and comfortable.

DearLady offers strap on dildos from $10-$20 for you to explore—just remember to check for your size. Harnesses are usually adjustable to accommodate a variety of body sizes, and if comfort is your main concern, rest assured that today`s harnesses are designed with your ultimate comfort in mind.

Dildo

One of the most important aspects in finding the perfect strap on dildo is to make sure that the dildo and harness fit well together, are comfortable to use, and provide you with control.

Many strap on dildo kits feature a harness plus the harness-compatible dildo itself. If you find that perfect harness and it doesn’t come with a dildo or if you simply want to have or add to a repertoire of harness-friendly toys, you`ll need to know the basics.

Harness-friendly sex toys feature flared, flat or suction-cupped bases. They are often on the lengthier side (6+ inches) so you have enough room between bodies to keep your play comfortable and safe.

Dildos that are harness-compatible are made from all of the materials traditional dildos are made from, from silicone to Cyberskin and everything in between, all for your choosing.

A variety of types, including probe, G-spot and prostate, textured, vibrating, rotating, double penetration, and hollow, offers a deviation from the standard dildo your first strap on kit will more than likely include.

Using a strap on dildo with your partner adds novelty, excitement, playfulness, and deeper intimacy
in the bedroom and between the sheets, which often leads to a healthier, happier life in general.

Strap on dildos offer a unique, visual treat for the both of you to enjoy, as well as an invitation to let go and get a little (or a lot) wild!

We encourage you to let your partner pound you out with a strap on dildo for all of the reasons listed above, as well as allowing you to discover new sexual positions, fantasies and the best sex of your life.

With this guide, we hope that you will have all you need to make an informed decision about your exciting sex toy purchase.

Just remember to have fun with your strap on dildo and don`t forget to enjoy the ride!

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